Last night I took myself out on a date. I've been feeling kind of ...well, shitty lately, and I decided that it was time to do something about it. I am an avid reader of the blog
Gala Darling, so I decided to practice some of her ideas for
radical self love. And you know what? My date was awesome!
I wore a thrifted 1960s mini mod dress (it was way shorter than anything I'd normally wear, but I love the buttons and the color, so I paired it with some textured black tights and vowed to be confident). I straightened my frizzy mess of hair while blaring my favorite punk rock band and I tried new make up tricks that I've been learning from great blogs such as
ConstantlyAlice.
Anywho, I took myself to my
absolute favorite sushi place in Charlotte. I sat at the bar by myself and felt totally comfortable and happy (!). It was great and I am going to start taking myself out on dates more often.
After eating and drinking and being merry, I came home to watch the 1957 movie,
Witness for the Prosecution, based on the Agatha Christie novel. (I absolutely love mysteries and courtroom dramas.) Starlet
Marlene Dietrich stars in this movie and she is a little hottie. Just look.
Before I thought that "radical self love" - ideas prompted by not only Gala Darling but also
Olivine's Charm School - sounded selfish or self-absorbed or something. But it's not. Why can't you love yourself the way you love your friends and family? So I'm working on it...and it's looking to be a super fun project ;-)
Give it a try! You might be surprised.
photo creds:
marlene /
poster
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